ALAN MERRYWEATHER |
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by Alan Merryweather
HENRY BROADWAY COLLINS MERRYWEATHER
and HARRIET JULIA AMIEL |
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Only a look and a voice; then darknes again and a silence. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.1 Civil registration did not begin until 1 July 1837. Before then parish registers frequently record baptisms, but seldom birth-dates. These can be found noted down, usually in bibles, but Edward and Sarah's Marriage Settlement was annotated with this information about Henry and his two brothers. Henry came into the world at Higher Mere Park Farm on the 26 October 1823 and it was there that he was privately baptised on the 24 November. Sometimes, emergency home baptisms took place when a baby was sickly, but if the father was one of the gentry it was often the custom to summon the parson to the house to perform the ceremony. Is this what happened here or did the family's Methodist leanings mean that Henry was first baptised at Motcombe? The register of Mere church records Henry’s public baptism on the 12 February 1829, the year after the death of father Edward. The vicar, the Rev. S H Casson who was trying to fulfil the requirement of the 1662 Book of Common Prayer with its service The Ministration of Publick Baptism of Infants to be used in Church, wrote a testy note on a separate piece of paper which he put in the register: I never enter private baptisms; they ought to be discouraged. S H C[asson]. Thereafter, a tantalising gap since nothing more is known of Henry's whereabouts until the night of the 6-7 June 1841 when he was recorded in the census at Rivers Street, Bath, Somerset living with a Frances Amiel aged about 50, of Independent means.2 This was Frances Christiana Josiah Amiel, an aunt to his future wife. Also in the same dwelling were members of the Fryer family.3 Henry, described as ‘of Yeovil Somerset’ is next found on the 4 October 1844 at Gretna Hall, Dumfriesshire4 with Julia Harrietta [sic] Amiel of Walcot Somerset where they contracted an irregular marriage, the reason for which will be made clear shortly. Then in London on the 13 June 1845 when he bought a marriage licence from the Vicar General of the Archbishop of Canterbury (probably at Westminster or Lambeth), as a prelude to marriage on the 16 June to Harriet Julia Amiel at St. Pancras Old Church, Euston, London. The wedding took place not at the new building finely designed on strict classical lines which includes a part copied precisely from the Acropolis at Athens, but at the formerly medieval church, extensively remodelled in 1848 and which lies away from the urban development which was then taking place. The couple lived at Euston Square, later partially demolished to make way for Euston Road5, a wide thoroughfare pushed through in front of Euston Station6 and the magnificent new Victorian Gothic 'cathedral' of St. Pancras Station. Julia (as she was known), baptised at St. Mary's, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire on the 7 April 1824, now just over 21, was the daughter of Lt. William Eardley Amiel, RN by his first wife Martha née Moore, and a grand-daughter of Capt. Otho Hamilton Amiel. The 1841 census shows her too living in Bath with her family at Grosvenor Place.7 The marriage certificate shows that they lived at St. Pancras and the birth of their first child was at fashionable 7 Harrington Street, and reveals the startling fact that events leading up to the wedding must have been less than happy since Julia was already three months pregnant when she stood before the altar. Evidently the chaperon system had broken down. Family tradition wrongly held that Julia had married beneath her and was disowned by her father - although her three brothers had stood by her. Her father's displeasure may not have lasted beyond the 9 February 1848 when Henry and Julia were named by him in a Deed of Family Arrangement which included inheriting a building in Park Place, St James, just off Pall Mall, near to the Duke of York steps Henry registered as a student at the University College Hospital (which now has a separate existence as a medical school), during the sessions 1849-50 through to 1853-54. The College Calendar shows that the terms for perpetual admission for practical and clinical courses were a fee of £26 paid in two parts, at £21 plus a 15/- [75p] fee on the 5 October 1849 and a further 5 guineas [£5.25] a year later. He was recorded at admission as being 25 years old and would have been able to pay for his training out of his share of the inheritance. He lived at 72 Euston Square - a short walk from the College. Studies ranged over anatomy and physiology, surgery, medicine and chemistry and took him twice as long to complete as brother John. Is there a clue to his character in the stereotype of the medical student of the 1840s?:
Steeplechases in the dissecting room, cheating in the Latin examinations, flirting with the barmaid, gin-and-water until three o'clock in the morning.8 At the decennial census on 30 March 1851, the Merryweather family was visited at their home at 72 Euston Square.9
Name Position Age Status Occupation Where born H Head 27 Married Chemist Wiltshire J Wife 27 Married - Glos Martha Daughter 5 - - London Charlotte Daughter 6mo - - London J.[?]. Brother 25 Unmarried Mariner Wiltshire H F Tullen. Servant 23 Unmarried Asst Chem Glos Harvey. Servant 30 Unmarried Servant Kent Eliza Hobson. Servant 28 Unmarried Servant Leicester The 1854 Calendar of the Royal College of Surgeons, the year that Henry qualified as an MRCS and as a Licentiate in Midwifery, showed his address as Bath, Somerset. Another matter in 1854 was the Crimean war which went on until an Armistice of 1856. It was an inconclusive affair, the British allied with France and Turkey, against Russia - a conflict notable for its heavy losses on both sides. Later documents show that Henry claimed to have been a surgeon in charge of a large hospital in that war for 15 months (said by American brother officers to have been at Scutari in Turkey). However, he does not appear to have been a military surgeon. His name is not listed amongst the civilian doctors who served there but as it was compiled in July 1855 it may not have been up-to-date nor could it have included arrivals in the closing stages of the war.10 After qualifying, Henry's name appeared in successive editions of Churchill's Medical Directory from 1855 until 1859 when his name was asterisked, showing that the enquiry sent to him had not been answered. Henry had gone away.
We can only guess at the reasons for Henry moving not only away from London, but out of the country altogether. The medical fraternity, in the face of increasing public criticism and concern had for years been under pressure to become properly regulated, but no less than 17 medical bills presented to Parliament between 1840 and 1858, had foundered mainly due to sectional interests and wrangling in the profession. Henry and his family went to Canada. There was no civil registration in force when his only son was born 6 April 1858 at Hamilton, Ontario. This implies that the family would have left England from either Liverpool or Bristol, the two main exit ports for the New World, making their way inland. The family later journeyed south where Henry next turned up in Ohio where he had decided to follow his profession in the American army and initially worked for the Unionist forces who were fighting the Southern Confederate rebels, mainly over the issues of the preservation of the union of the States and the abolition of slavery. The Northern army had many assistant surgeons who enlisted on contract for periods of three months upwards and Henry served as such from 5 April 1862. Fortunately, the United States National Archive still holds Henry's service file for the American Civil War (1861-65) which enables us to piece together an account of him during those years.11
He was keen for promotion and it is in his letters and other documents that his progress can best be followed starting with a letter to Brig. Gen. Hammond USA. Surgeon General. Colombus, Ohio. 11 August 1863.
Sir.
I have the honor to be Sir, PS. I beg to enclose letter from Surgeon General of Ohio. This accompanying letter mentions that Henry:
Meantime, he mustered at Camp Delaware, Colombus, Ohio on 21 September 1863 and was appointed an Assistant Surgeon, a post he accepted in a letter written six days later. The Muster Rolls show that a posting to the 5th Regiment United States Colored Troops followed on the 17 October and the need for a full surgeon prompted around 19 of Henry's brother officers to sign a petition on the 13 November addressed to Governor Tod of Ohio:
The Governor endorsed Henry's application the same day and by the December Henry was ordered before the examining Board, but it is not certain that he avoided travelling some 500 miles (840 km) to Cincinnati from Yorktown, Virginia where he then was. He was questioned about obstetrics, physiology, chemistry, medical jurisprudence, physiotherapy, pathology, anatomy, surgery, practical medicine, mat. medica and hygiene. Henry's answers incorporate chemical formulae, descriptions of gases, the chemical history of sulphur and show evidence of wide practical knowledge. But the most useful document is the medical autobiography he was asked to compile:
And an example of one of the question papers:
On the 16 April, an anxious Henry complained about the lack of news:
Matters were not to be hurried. Even as late as 7 November enquiries were still being made about him as a letter from the Office of the Surgeon General shows addressed to the Surgeon in charge of the 18th Corps Flying Hospital who replied:
S A Richardson.
The letter was endorsed by Surgeon F S Ainsworth:
And also a most illuminating testimonial written on the 7 November 1864 by J W Mitchell, Surgeon 5th USCT, Surgeon in Chief 3rd Division, 18th AC:13 To whom it may concern. It gives me pleasure to recommend Asst. Surg. C H Merryweather of the 5th USCT, for promotion to the rank of Surgeon. Doctor Merryweather served in the English Army during the Crimean war; when the Rebellion broke out, he was one of the first to enter our army, in which he has served either as Contract or Assistant Surgeon, untill the present time. During the few months he had charge of his Regt., he conducted the medical department in a manner highly satisfactory to his Superior Officers. He is a well-read and a practical physician; a judicious and skilled operator; a man of good moral character and sound sense. An offer of promotion of Surgeon to the 117th USCT foretold a prosperous New Year for Henry's family and he accepted the appointment written from Chapins Farm on the last day of 1864. This was swiftly followed by a letter of 1 January 1865 to Capt. H B Scott, Asst. Adjt. Gen. which revealed a last-minute major obstacle.
I have the honour to state that on the 30th of Decr./64 I recd an Appointment of Surgeon to the 117th USCT which I accepted on the following day and on reporting to the Regt. for duty this morning found a Surgeon had been previously appointed and duly mustered. These bare facts, the prelude to a crucial turning-point in our family's history, disguise what Henry's feelings might have been at this disappointment, an administrative mix-up caused by the disruptive nature of war. As an observer of day-to-day suffering and horror Henry ought to have been able to have taken this set-back with quiet resolution. Subsequent letters record the muddle but there was no talk of a re-appointment. Let us now take a look here at what conditions were like in this terrible war. A very clear picture of the true nature of sufferings during the conflict emerges from an article - a very different perspective from that usually seen on the cinema screen.14
In the Union Army, four died of disease for every one killed by the enemy; dysentery and diarrhoeal diseases killed 57,000 Union soldiers, 13,000 more than the total killed in battle. The infective nature of these diseases being unknown, latrines (called sinks) were placed anywhere and water was never purified. Many men did not bother to use latrines, indeed some Regiments did not dig them. Many ... relapsed badly in personal habits ... the mess, the grounds, the beds, the guardhouses were in many cases described as 'deep in filth'. Flies appeared in clouds. 'We all scratch alike, generals and privates', wrote an Ohio sergeant early in the war. Typhoid, always a scourge of nineteenth century armies, caused a quarter of all the deaths from disease, and was frequently mis-diagnosed. Chloroform was the standard anaesthetic ... amputation appears to have been performed very readily. Indeed, field surgery was largely concerned with bullet extraction and amputation. Before the war was over the Union forces had enlisted 12,343 doctors ... many were scantily trained. As in all armies there were thousands of complaints of incompetent doctoring. It is unhappily true that a surprising number of doctors faced courts martial on charges of drinking the spirits supplied for their patients, but the Medical Inspector-general of the British Army who visited Union battlefields, praised the Union Army doctors highly, and he was no lover of Americans ... . The majority on both sides appear to have been honourable men doing their best in difficult circumstances. The death rate amongst them, both from enemy action and from disease was greater than in any other staff corps.
Our obituary department gives the death of Dr. H C Merriweather, of this city, who died of typhoid fever at Washington,15 N.C., on the 10th ult. Dr. M . was the Surgeon of the 5th USCT., and has been in the service about three years. He has proved an efficient Surgeon, and has ever won the confidence and esteem of those with whom he has been associated. He leaves a wife and three children who reside in this city.How rueful is the irony that Henry, having survived all the rigours of conflict should have died a month or so before the end of the war and that one of his medical examination papers had questioned him on the purity of water.
Henry's answer, based on experience in the field, accorded with contemporary hit-or-miss practice but typhoid, a water-borne bacillus, was very common and its effects usually fatal.
The American poet Walt Whitman, commemorated Henry and all who fell in the Civil War with some very partial and exaggerated words:16
Gentle, plain, just and resolute - under whose cautious hand, Against the foulest crime in history known in any land or age, Was saved the Union of these States.
Henry's tragic and untimely death was a severe blow to the family's fortunes which simply was unable to sustain his loss and that of his father Edward. He left no detected Will, simply his belongings, some of which have been passed down to us - his magnifying glass in its tortoiseshell case, an enamelled snuff-box, his prayer book, Daguerreotypes of himself and family and two cartes de visite. Henry's only memorial is in The Medical and Surgical History of the War of the Rebellion,17 which mentions him many times as an operator next to details of the name of the patient, type of operation and outcome. As a matter of passing interest, George Merryweather, Henry's grandson maintained that his sister Maud used to have two photographs of Henry in Army uniform, one of them in Union dress which has survived,18 the other as a Confederate. However, the evidence does not bear this out and it is more than likely that a Crimean war uniform was involved.19 Julia had evidently kept in touch with her own family during her time in America and would have felt welcome and more at home on her return to London than in America which she left with her three children, arriving back in England perhaps in late 1865 or early the following year. Her father, William Eardley Amiel had died in April 1864 and less than a year later 24 Janary 1865 her step-mother Margaret Anne Amiel arranged a Settlement Trust20 making a provision for her. The dating of this document, after William's death may give credence to the family tale about William disowning his daughter. The Trust's financial terms are not known, but Julia was far from destitute since the U.S. Department of the Interior in a Widow's Claim of the 31 May 1866 awarded her an annuity of $17 per month back-dated to Henry's death. As the following series of letters and extracts show, before returning to England Julia had started enquiries into some of Henry's property which was missing: Letter 15 July 1865 to Mrs. Dr. Merryweather. [?at Columbus, Ohio]. Ohio State Military Agency New Berne N.C.
On examining the assets it was discovered that all the valuable portion of them had been purloined. The Hosptl. record gave a complete list of the assets at his death from which there was missing the following articles. One gold watch and chain, one gold finger ring, one fine Dress Coat and $50 in U.S. Currency. I was at a loss to know what to do in the premises but after consulting with the Officers in common concluded to Receipt for the articles that were left and set the Secret Police to search for the missing property. Dr. Day and the Prevost Marshall felt very confident that they would be able to recover it. I then returned to this place and laid the case before the Medical Director of the Department who approved of the course taken and of whom I have reason to believe done all he could to recover the property but thus far all efforts have been in vain. I saw Dr. Day a few days ago on his way home. He said they had made every possible effort but had made no discoveries and he thought the case a hopeless one. I have therefore concluded to send you what there is left by express. My reason for not sending sooner was the hope of recovering the balance of the property and save your already severely afflicted mind any further pangs by the loss of relics that I know from experience would have been doubly cherished by yourself and family aside from their intrinsic value. I visited the Cemetery22 in which your husband now rests. It's a beautiful place in which hundreds of our noble Officers and soldiers are interred in regular order and their graves all marked with a neat board, their names ranks &c. marked thereon. The Dr. grave I marked by sinking a piece of a pine board 2 foot long in the center of the grave I also buried a Brick about 1 foot deep at the head thereof so that if anything should happen that the board should be lost or removed the place could still be found. The orders of the Dept. prohibit the removal of Bodies yet. Anything further in relation to matters connected with your business here I will most cheerfully and willingly do. I expect to be in Columbus in about 2 weeks and if possible I will try and see you.
With respect yours E Peters. Ohio S. M. Agt.
Julia took the matter up again after her return to England with a letter 26 October 1865 to Major General J M Barnes, Surgeon General USA, Washington DC. US.23 sent from her home at 24 Maida Hill West, London. England.
I beg leave to ask your attention to the enclosed letter from Mr Peters which reached me some time since and which after reflection I have thought best to forward to you feeling that I shall receive justice at your hands. As you will perceive the effects of my deceased husband were abstracted after they had been recorded on the Hospital Books, which is an evidence of their having been placed in the custody of those who should have been responsible for their safe keeping. Apart from the loss of the money which I can ill afford, and the watch which was extremely valuable, the effects as relics of my lamented husband, were particularly dear to me and my children and it is on this account I appeal for their restoration. I therefore earnestly request that you will institute such an investigation as you may deem best to aid me in the object I have in view, and inform me of the result. Any testimony as to my identity can be furnished that may be required. Trusting that the occasion which prompted me to write will be a sufficient excuse for this intruding. I have the honor to be Very respectfully Yours Julia Merryweather. Widow of Dr. H Merryweather Asst. Surg. 5th U.S.C.Troops. Julia's letter was immediately referred to J Holt the Judge Advocate General who before setting in motion an enquiry cautiously wrote:
So a letter of 18 November went to Dr. W E Day late Asst. Surgeon 117th N.Y.Vols.:
Dr. Day had moved but he responded promptly in his letter of 12 January 1866:
Julia probably decided to let the matter rest. She lived on until the 7 September 1879, dying from morbus cordis syncope at Durnscroft Cottage, West End, Mortlake, Surrey, her daughter Amelia of 68 Church Street, Chelsea with her at the end.24 Space for three burials had been bought in a private grave at Brompton cemetery, Fulham Road, London and she was buried there on the 11 September.24 Henry and Julia had had five children, all daughters save for one boy, a slender thread on whom continuance of the family name depended. Martha Julia Merryweather was conceived out of wedlock and would surely have been prevented from finding out about it because of the shame and stigma surrounding illegitimacy. She was born 24 December 1845 at 7 Harrington Street, Regents Park, St. Pancras, and baptised on the 29 January 1846 at the same church where her parents had married. Perhaps, trying to confuse or to conceal things the birth was not registered until the 3 February 1846, father Henry, describing himself as a surgeon.25 Martha travelled across the Atlantic with her parents and only sister, but nothing is known about her apart from the fact that she was keen on attending religious revivalist meetings. She died, unmarried on the 31 August 1917. Auntie Marty, as she was called, lies buried in the family grave at Brompton Cemetery.
Charlotte Sarah Merryweather, born at 72 Euston Square 4 October 1850 was baptised at St. Pancras Old Church on the 31 October, but she died sometime before July 1853. Amelia Collins Merryweather was born 13 October 1852 when the family were at Euston Square and her baptism on the 13 February 1855 was at the same local church. She would have been about twelve when she came back to England from the New World. Known by her nephew George Merryweather as a white-haired and blind old lady, like her sister Martha she is said to have regarded Ada, their brother William's wife as an interloper. This may have been because Ada was Welsh and from a lower social class than Henry and Julia. Amelia died on 30 August 1939, three days before the outbreak of the Second World War. Her obituary in a local newspaper gives a colourful and somewhat exaggerated obituary of this 87-year-old lady, the last to be buried in the family grave.26
Link with "Abe" Lincoln Severed. Old Lady's Wonderful Memories. Miss Amelia Merryweather who was laid to rest in Brompton cemetery on Friday [8 September 1939] after spending close on 80 years in Chelsea was a lady of unique experience whose vivid memories were a constant source of entertainment and astonishment to her friends. She died on Wednesday week at her home, 55 Lamont Road, Chelsea. She had completed a residence in Chelsea extending over 77 years. Much of the time was spent in the former Camera Square. Miss Merryweather was taken out to America by her parents at the age of three or four years. Her father was Dr. H C Merryweather, surgeon to the 5th USCT, and her maternal grandfather was Admiral Amiel (sic) One of our reporters was shown a copy of the "Daily Ohio State Journal", published in Columbus, Ohio, on May 2, 1865. The paper records the death from typhoid fever at Wilmington of Dr. Merryweather, with a note that he had been in the service about three years, had proved an efficient surgeon, and had ever won the confidence and esteem of those with whom he had been associated. The report adds. "He leaves a wife and three children who reside in this city (Columbus)." Miss Merryweather had:-
She remembered that when she was a child in America she used to play up and down the steps of a Government building that was frequently visited by Lincoln. He used to say, "Now then, you children, what have I told you about playing on the steps?" "Were you frightened?" her friends used to ask her, and she would reply, "Of course I wasn't. I used to do the same thing again." After her return to England at the age of about nine years she used to live in a Chelsea house that was close to the home of Charles Dickens. She freely admitted that she was a mischievous child and that when she saw Mr. Dickens in his garden she used to cry "Mama, here comes Charlie Dickens!"27 "You should say Mr. Charles Dickens, my child."
Miss Merryweather also had memories of Moody and Sankey the American revivalists. Her elder sister used to go and sing at their meetings in London. At her funeral, on Friday, Miss Merryweather's only relatives attended. They were her niece (Mrs. Barrett), and Mr. and Mrs. R Merryweather (nephew and wife), and Mr. G Merryweather (nephew). Messrs. E B Ashton and Co., 235 and 817 Fulham Road, arranged the funeral. Emma Helena Merryweather. Her birth was not registered but she was baptised 1 August 1855 at St. Pancras Old Church and died shortly afterwards. Her second name comes from the Helena, a ship that her grandfather, Commander William Eardley Amiel had served on. William Henry Charles Merryweather, 1858-1923 (see Chapter 11).
Partial Distribution Account as at 14 January 1924. In the events which have happened the trusteeship became vested in Mr. William Harvey and by an Indenture dated the 17th June 1915, he retired and appointed the Public Trustee in his stead. Mrs. J H Merryweather died on the 7th September 1879 and in accordance with the terms of the Settlement the income from the trust funds became divisible equally between her three children viz.:- Miss Martha Julia Merryweather, Miss Amelia Collins Merryweather and Mr. William Henry Charles Merryweather. Miss M J Merryweather died on the 31st August 1917 and one third of the trust funds were distributed between Miss A C Merryweather and Mr. W H C Merryweather as shewn by the Partial Distribution Account dated 17 May 1919. Mr. W H C Merryweather died on the 10 August 1923 whereupon one half of the remaining trust funds became distributable as to one third to his widow Mrs. Ada Caroline Merryweather and as to two thirds to his children, i.e. 2/9ths to Mrs. Maud Amelia Barrett, 2/9ths to Mr. Reginald Alfred Merryweather, and 2/9ths to Mr. George Alexander Merryweather on his attaining his majority on the 19th March 1924.
2 HO107/920/f.14. 3 See Chapter [chapter in progress] Helena Woodley Losack Amiel and her spouse. 4 Marriages at Gretna Hall April 1844. This information came from an index no longer exhibited on the ancestry.com website. Julia had trodden the same path as her grandfather Otho Hamilton Amiel and his wife Frances. See Chapter [chapter number o/s]. 5 It was then called New Street. 6 Demolished alas, the result of Doctor Richard Beeching wielding the 'Beeching axe'. He had been appointed in 1961 by Government to rationalise the railway system. 7 HO107/5/f.12. 8 W Dale. The State of the Medical Profession in Great Britain. J Atkinson & Co., Dublin 1875. 9 HO107/1496/f.270. 10 Research has been fruitless, but one fact tantalizes. Among the women sent by Florence Nightingale to Scutari was Elizabeth Amiel, an ironer who later became a nurse. Because of the rarity of the surname and other evidence she was almost certainly a maiden aunt to Henry’s wife Harriet Julia née Amiel. 11 NC 74907. Record Group 94: Records of the Adjutant General's Office. 12 This cannot be verified as the event predates the records of Victoria University, Toronto and those of the United Church, Victoria College. 13 Mitchell appears to have been given the appointment that Henry was promised. 14 Dr. Ll Grifiths, FRCS. Proceedings of the Royal Society of Medicine. 15 A misprint. It should be Wilmington. The newspaper’s date is printed as 2, MYA 1865. Interesting that this newspaper carries as the headline item the news of the assassination of Abraham Lincoln. 16 This Dust was once a Man. 17 Surgeon General's Office, Washington, USA. 18 The extant photo was taken by J M Elliott, 101 S. High Street, Colombus and has written on the reverse, My Beloved Father. 19 Further efforts made in 2000 aimed at proving that Henry was at Scutari came to nothing. 20 This document, quoted in full at the end of this Chapter is crucially important in cementing together circumstantial evidence about William H C Merryweather, records of whose birth and baptism, if they exist at all, are undetected. 21 There is nothing in Henry's army file to show that he was ever appointed a full Surgeon. Julia's pension was that of an Assistant Surgeon's widow. 22 The cemetery is in Duplin County, 60 miles southeast of Raleigh. 23 Postmarked (LONDON W. OC 27 65 and BOSTON ST PKT) and Endorsed Surgeon Generals Office 13 November 1865. 24 It is believed that the family may have also lived in Chelsea at Gertrude Street and Lamont Road. 25 Compare this with the 1851 census where he described himself as a chemist. 26 The graves are in the north-west corner of Private Grave "L". If there was a headstone, no trace of it could be found on a visit to the overgrown vicinity in April 2000. 27 Charlie was a respectable 19th century Christian name. The Bishop of Gloucester was recorded with it in the 1881 census for Gloucester.
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